I need help getting a tombstone for my babies grave. Keslee , Kaden and Jaymie. Keslee has a stone already but i want to get another one so i can put her brothers on the same stone with her. Keslee passed away in my womb when i was 7 1/2 months pregant from a placental abruption from a car accident i was in in 1999. Kaden James was my first son. He was concieved on my honeymoon and due to being a high risk pregnancy and blood clotting disease called factor 8 he passed away in my womb at 23 weeks. Jaymie( James R Dreese 111) was my second son and last child. I was also high risk with him due to blood clotting. He was born three months early Sept 3 2006. He was one pound and three ounces when he was born, He spent every day of his life before he passed away in the nicu. He was a very sick baby. He had a grade three brain hemorrage, NEC, lung infections, rop, Cystic Fibrosis. I spent every day in the nicu with him, I sang to him, read books, PRAYED, I only got to hold him a few times and change his diaper. My ex- husband and i had to take Jaymie off of life support Dec 26, 2006. The dr's told us there was nothing more they could do. We made the unselfish decision to let him go with Jesus. I held him in my arms as he took his last breath. We were hoping that a miracle would hppen and that his infection would go away and he would just start to breath on his own but that did not happen. We burried Jaymie December 29, 2006. That was the third hardest day of my life. I have been not myself every since. I wanted to share my story with the hopes of maybe somebody helping me to get a stone for all three of my babies to be on one. They deserve to be together. I am on Disability and cannot afford to pay for it. My heart would feel so much better if I knew that my babies had a resting stone that honored their memory. If you could help id grealy appreciate it and i will definitley pay it forward in other ways.
in response to candi+2...I REALLY HOPE AND PRAY THAT YOU AND YOUR KIDS GET ALL THE HELP THAT YOU NEED AND DESERVE. GOD NEEDS TO INTERVIEN AND PLACE YALL IN A GOOD HOME WITH SOME MONEY . HAVE YOU CONTACTED THE GOVERNMENT FOR HELP???
WOW, SWEETIE YOU NEED SOME COUNSELING. JUST TO HEAR YOU SAY YOU UNDERSTAND WHY PEOPLE KILL THEIRS KIDS TO ME IS VERYYY DISTURBING. IM THINKING YOUR KIDS ARE NOT SAFE IN YOUR CARE RIGHT NOW. IM NOT TRYING TO BE MEAN BUT YOU REALLY NEED SOME HELP IN ALL AREAS....A CONCERNED MOTHER
I RECENTLY GOT DIVORCED IN MARCH, I AM LIVING OFF OF 563.OO DOLLARS A MONTH DUE TO BE ON DISABILITY FROM LOSING THREE OF MY CHILDREN, TWO IN PREGNANCY AND TAKING MY SON OFF OF LIFE SUPPORT WHEN HE WAS THREE MONTHS AND 23 DAYS OLD. HE WAS TAKING OFF DECEMBER 26, 2006. I BECAME REALLY DEPRESSED, TRIED TO KILL MYSELF, MY HUSBAND CHOOSE TO LEAVE AND NOT BE THERE FOR ME. ON THE DAY OF MY SON'SONE YEAR OF TAKING HIM OFF LIFE SUPPORT MY EX HUSBAND WAS WITH HIS SISTER INSTEAD OF ME.WHEN HE GOT DIVORCED HE TOOK EVERYTHING FROM ME. WE HAD A BUISNESS THAT WE STARTED TOGETHER, I DID NOT GET HALF. WHENI SAY HE GOT EVERYTHING HE DID. I COULD NOT AFFORD A LAWYER AND THATS WHY WE PRETTY MUCH GOT EVERYTHING. WHEN WE DID OUR TAXES IN 2006 MY EX HUSBAND MESSED THEM UP, NOW THREE YEARS LATER THEY CAME AFTER US SAYING WE OWED THEM MONEY. IN 2006 I DID NOT WORK BECAUSE I WAS HIGH RISH PREGNANCY AND I SPENT EVERY DAY IN THE NICU WITH MY SON. JIMMY PUT IN THE DIVORSE DECREE THAT I WOULD HAVET TO PAY HALF KNOWING THAT ALL I MAKE IS 563.00 FROM DISABILITY. I HAVE NO MONEY TO PAY THIS, MY HALF OF THE TOTAL IS 1300.OO DOLLARS. I AM SO AFRAID THAT I AM GONNA GET IN TROUBLE AND THAT THE IRS WILL TAKE MY DISABILITY FROM ME FROM NOT BEING ABLE TO PAY THEM 1300.00. WHAT I AM ASKING FOR IS HELP. . I WILL BE SURE TO PAY IT FORWARD WITH LOVE AND COMPASSION FOR OTHERS.
IF YOU COULD SEND ANYTHING I WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT. THANKS SO MUCH,
LET THEM GO! BY BISHOP T.D. JAKES.... Current mood: blessed
There are people who can walk away from you. And hear me when I tell you this! When people can walk away from you: let them walk.
I don't want you to try to talk another person into staying with you, loving you, calling you, caring about you, coming to see you, staying attached to you. I mean hang up the phone. When people can walk away from you let them walk. Your destiny is never tied to anybody that left.
The Bible said that, they came out from us that it might be made manifest that they were not for us. For had they been of us, no doubt they would have continued with us. [1 John 2:19]
People leave you because they are not joined to you. And if they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay.
Let them go.
And it doesn't mean that they are a bad person it just means that their part in the story is over. And you've got to know when people's part in your story is over so that you don't keep trying to raise the dead.
You've got to know when it's dead.
You've got to know when it's over. Let me tell you something. I've got the gift of good-bye. It's the tenth spiritual gift, I believe in good-bye. It's not that I'm hateful, it's that I'm faithful, and I know whatever God means for me to have He'll give it to me. And if it takes too much sweat I don't need it. Stop begging people to stay.
Let them go!!
If you are holding on to something that doesn't belong to you and was never intended for your life, then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to past hurts and pains . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone can't treat you right, love you back, and see your worth . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If someone has angered you . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to some thoughts of evil and revenge . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are involved in a wrong relationship or addiction . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are holding on to a job that no longer meets your needs or talents . . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you have a bad attitude . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep judging others to make yourself feel better . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're stuck in the past and God is trying to take you to a new level in Him . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you are struggling with the healing of a broken relationship . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you keep trying to help someone who won't even try to help themselves . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If you're feeling depressed and stressed . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
If there is a particular situation that you are so used to handling yourself and God is saying "take your hands off of it," then you need to . . . . . . . .
LET IT GO!!!
Let the past be the past Forget the former things. GOD is doing a new thing for 2007!!!
LET IT GO!!!
Get Right or Get Left. think about it, and then . . . . . . . .
THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR PERSONAL STORY WITH US, I KNOW IT HAD TO BE HARD TO LET STRANGERS KNOW YOUR PERSONAL STRUGGLES. I AM ALSO GOING THROUGH ROUGH TIMES RIGHT NOW, I PRAY THAT YOU RECIEVE THE HELP YOU ARE NEEDING. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY, LOTS OF LOVE TONYA
I WISH I COULD HELP YOU OUT. IF I WON THE LOTTERY, I DONT PLAY, LOL I WOULD HELP SO MANY PEOPLE. I HATE THAT I AM IN A SITUATION WERE I AM THE ONE WHO NEEDS HELP. I WILL BE THINKING OF YOU AND PRAYING THAT YOU GET THE HELP YOU NEED. ALL MY LOVE AND SUPPORT TONYA
I RECENTLY GOT DIVORCED IN MARCH, I AM LIVING OFF OF 563.OO DOLLARS A MONTH DUE TO BE ON DISABILITY FROM LOSING THREE OF MY CHILDREN, TWO IN PREGNANCY AND TAKING MY SON OFF OF LIFE SUPPORT WHEN HE WAS THREE MONTHS AND 23 DAYS OLD. HE WAS TAKING OFF DECEMBER 26, 2006. I BECAME REALLY DEPRESSED, TRIED TO KILL MYSELF, MY HUSBAND CHOOSE TO LEAVE AND NOT BE THERE FOR ME. ON THE DAY OF MY SON'SONE YEAR OF TAKING HIM OFF LIFE SUPPORT MY EX HUSBAND WAS WITH HIS SISTER INSTEAD OF ME.WHEN HE GOT DIVORCED HE TOOK EVERYTHING FROM ME. WE HAD A BUISNESS THAT WE STARTED TOGETHER, I DID NOT GET HALF. WHENI SAY HE GOT EVERYTHING HE DID. I COULD NOT AFFORD A LAWYER AND THATS WHY WE PRETTY MUCH GOT EVERYTHING. WHEN WE DID OUR TAXES IN 2006 MY EX HUSBAND MESSED THEM UP, NOW THREE YEARS LATER THEY CAME AFTER US SAYING WE OWED THEM MONEY. IN 2006 I DID NOT WORK BECAUSE I WAS HIGH RISH PREGNANCY AND I SPENT EVERY DAY IN THE NICU WITH MY SON. JIMMY PUT IN THE DIVORSE DECREE THAT I WOULD HAVET TO PAY HALF KNOWING THAT ALL I MAKE IS 563.00 FROM DISABILITY. I HAVE NO MONEY TO PAY THIS, MY HALF OF THE TOTAL IS 1300.OO DOLLARS. I AM SO AFRAID THAT I AM GONNA GET IN TROUBLE AND THAT THE IRS WILL TAKE MY DISABILITY FROM ME FROM NOT BEING ABLE TO PAY THEM 1300.00. WHAT I AM ASKING FOR IS HELP. . I WILL BE SURE TO PAY IT FORWARD WITH LOVE AND COMPASSION FOR OTHERS.
IF YOU COULD SEND ANYTHING I WOULD GREATLY APPRECIATE IT. THANKS SO MUCH,
blessed 
